My LoveStory

I got married a couple of years ago. 💑 💍
At that time, it was the "in" thing. Everyone was talking about it, and if you were not in love, you were not part of the guys, as you would not have anything "in common" to talk about.
Then came a young man (Ghen Ghen!😅), he was everything I wanted in a man... Everyone had the hots for him, some went as far as professing their love for him.
As the shy girl I am 🙈, I just mellowed, (I was thinking, if he notices me, good, if not, oh well)... Lo and behold, he came to me ooo... Eh! I was elated! (You can't even understand), I was even more happy when everyone starting talking about how lucky I was/am to have that kind of man love me (Hmmm! Me! Who would have thunked it! Hehehehehehe).
Anyways, before long we got married ooo.
Marriage life was fun at the beginning,we did everything together, no secrets, it was heaven! ❤
Then problem started😢, I grew out of love (I think I wasn't really in love, I was just in love with the idea of falling in love), I treated him terribly. I cheated, I lied, I was mean, I made him ashamed in so many ways...and each time I came asking for forgiveness, he would cry with me, wrap me in his warm embrace and tell me how much he loves me and that he had forgiven me😭😭

Chai!😯 It was that simple, but I didn't learn ooo, I did it over and over😔.
At a point, I passed my aggressions on him, and said, "Are you so desperate, after everything you're still here, can't you go with someone else and just leave me alone? I remember his response so vividly, he said, "I want no one else but you"... 😍
Eh! See profession of love, and here I was doing rubbish (SMH!).
Those words sank, and I decided to change, I went to counseling, we talked, I apologize over and over... And I began to really love him. It all became like it should have been from the start, I became truly in love with him.

Today, I want to celebrate my King 👑 , the Love of my life 😍 😍 ❤, my strength💪, my confidant, my Lord, Jesus Christ. Thank you for never giving up on me. Your love is seriously "sha-king" me, and I will tell the Whole world about it.
I love you for real Lord, always and forever! ❤❤❤

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