iamhadassah

Funny title right? 😅 Over the weekend, something really funny happened which gave me the inspiration to write this. Myself and my sisters were discussing how that it would be almost impossible to have an immediate sibling act as the make-up artist to a Bride, and that it is always good to outsource to a vendor. My Elder Sister went on to explain that the immediate siblings would have other important needs to attend to and that the duties of a make-up artist, included dabbing the face of the Bride at every point in time. My 14year old Sister immediately replied with "Oya Dab" 😂 ( if that came to your mind as well, SMH! 😂😂). It later occurred to me that she did not know the meaning of  "Dab", and thought it was what the song or dance move (I don't really know) represented. Which brings me to this... What is happening with children in this generation??? I remember growing up, I had a personal dictionary to learn new words, I was more interested in re...

I heard of a guy and a lady that were very good friends, super close even (I was witness to this actually) ... they had been friends since University days and everyone who saw them knew just how close and inseparable they were. One day, the lady told her friend (the guy) that she had met "the one", and as she was telling her friend about this guy she met, you'd know that she had fallen deep. The next words the guy uttered was a shock to me (the sofo 😂), and her. He said, "What about me? I thought I was the one". The girl was like "Huh?!"...and Brother continued and said, "We've done almost everything together over the last couple of years, we know our different families, we share the same network, you've told me times without number that you love me, I just assumed we were dating...I was even thinking that after Uni, I'd propose". I wanted to hear the gist firsthand, but my friend asked me to leave them to talk 😐. I enter...

A woman is the strongest being made by God. Her capacity and ability to "carry" and do so much is just amazing (and I do not state this because I am a woman😎😂) Women have their shortcomings and I know so many people will be so quick to mention the Garden of Eden days (yeah yeah! We know), but looking asides that women are just so powerful and are overcoming the world as we see it. I saw a graphics once that said, "The future is female" 😂😂😂 (Don't be jealous guys, make your own graphic 😝) Right from the Bible days, we see examples of Deborah, Abigail, Sarah, Hannah, Ruth & Esther (My 2 favs), and many others, who did things beyond the ordinary. Makes you understand that a woman will do ANYTHING she wants to do IF she puts her mind to it. Remember the story of Christ's resurrection (Jhn 20:1-18)... So, Mary did not see Jesus in the tomb, she went and called the disciples. the disciples went there and saw that truly Jesus was not there and afte...

Happy New Year!!! I'm wishing happy new year in March (Hehehehehehe) I pray this year yields for you everything you've ever wanted! So sorry I've been AWOL... I'm back and BETTER. Cheers, Hadassah.

I got married a couple of years ago. 💑 💍 At that time, it was the "in" thing. Everyone was talking about it, and if you were not in love, you were not part of the guys, as you would not have anything "in common" to talk about. Then came a young man (Ghen Ghen!😅), he was everything I wanted in a man... Everyone had the hots for him, some went as far as professing their love for him. As the shy girl I am 🙈, I just mellowed, (I was thinking, if he notices me, good, if not, oh well)... Lo and behold, he came to me ooo... Eh! I was elated! (You can't even understand), I was even more happy when everyone starting talking about how lucky I was/am to have that kind of man love me (Hmmm! Me! Who would have thunked it! Hehehehehehe). Anyways, before long we got married ooo. Marriage life was fun at the beginning,we did everything together, no secrets, it was heaven! ❤ Then problem started😢, I grew out of love (I think I wasn't really in love, I was just in...

Deuteronomy 30:15 says "This day, I call heaven and earth as witness against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life , so that you and your children may live. Its true that at a point in your life, you hold on to things that you think "matter" but really, life is too short to hold on to nothing but the things that bring you so much happiness...I read sometimes ago, that "Happiness is a choice" but apart from that Happiness is also derived. If you are in a situation where you go into deep thinking every time and you are even beginning to notice creases on your face, you need to let it Go... Let Go, Let God. Most humans want to help God even when he doesn't need our help, if he says he will do something, it will definitely do it (no matter when). There is no joy without hardship. If not for death, would we appreciate life? If not for hate, would we know the ultimate goal is love? At these moments you can e...